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Monday, August 16, 2010

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listened to some stories from my best friend today...after listened, i am so confused and i questioned what actually love is?

And i red someone's blog half an hour ago...someone, can i say that he is a friend of mine? yes, no or maybe...hahahaha...
according to him

love is patient,
love is kind,
love is immutable,
love is immeasurable,
love is being humble,not controlling,not limitation

love is all about always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and must have faith in yourself and her/him to work love out.

No deceive, no complain, believe in yourself and believe in her or him..

but, lets view from the opposite site...
what if love turns to be lies, deceives, disappointments, mutable, trust-less,hopeless, controlling and limitation?

sometimes, the more freedom you give, the more you lose....
you will lose confident, lose yourself...
sometimes, the more you trust, what you will get in return are lies and disappointments....
the more you trust, the deeper the cut and wound.....
sometimes, you will become so fragile...

if love has to be like this, will you still have confident in love...will you still dare to fall in love again?

but, if lose confident in love, thats very pity....

3 comments:

  1. y u wan to love if it include all the bad thing u statement above? because u love, so u love! others about love is GIVE and not request any return. Love is about giving all the thing u can give, n nothing more. Other thing is not decide by you, if the relationship is going to a bad outcome, that mean u haven't really met the person that really suitable to u, so dun be sad when the relationship is ended,u love with all your heart,u feel no regret in this relationship, so there is no point for u to feel sad. Contrary, u should feel happy, because u left a person that is not suitable to you and u start the journey again to find your true love. This is the thing we should happy about~ CheeeeeerS~

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  2. Love is about not giving too much and also not giving too less. Don't give up hope, happiness wont come to you if you dont search for it~ Good luck Sharon ^.^

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